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33 Engagement Party Decorations for a Home or Backyard

33 Engagement Party Decorations for a Home or Backyard

The ring went on somewhere between the proposal and the first phone call to her mother, and now the living room has about a week to catch up to the news. Nobody needs a marquee tent or a planner on retainer for that: a handful of well-placed pieces, built from the biggest wall to the smallest place card, do the actual work.

This list runs in exactly that order, biggest to smallest, so the budget and the effort go where the eye lands first: the backdrop wall, the dessert and drinks corner, the guest tables, the smaller corners of the room, then whatever sits right in front of each guest. Nothing here needs a specialist, a van hire or a weekend of your actual nerves.

If the guest list likes a bit of structure once the photos are taken, 18 Engagement Party Games to Celebrate the Happy Couple runs alongside all of it without a single extra prop to buy.

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Table of Contents
  1. The Big Backdrop Wall
  2. The Dessert and Drinks Corner
  3. The Guest Tables
  4. Room and Entry Details
  5. Place Settings and Favors
  6. Frequently Asked Questions

The Big Backdrop Wall

This is the wall guests photograph before they even say hello, so it carries the most weight and the biggest share of the budget. Build it top to bottom: the arch first, then the flowers behind it, then the sign in front, then the light strung over the whole thing.

Ring Balloon Arch

An empty wall behind the sofa says nothing until this arrives: an organic garland of ivory, blush and champagne gold balloons threaded with oversized foil rings, built up balloon by balloon along a double-sided balloon tape strip stuck straight to the wall, so the ring shapes catch the eye first and the smaller rounds fill in underneath.

It works best as the first thing guests see, across the main living room wall or down a hallway, and it reads just as well on a freestanding frame if the landlord says no to tape. Buy the balloons loose and inflate them the morning of: a hand pump and an evening of television gets the whole arch done for under the cost of a bouquet.

Ring Balloon Arch — An empty wall behind the sofa says nothing until this arrives: an organic garland of ivory, blush and champagne gold balloons threaded with
Ring Balloon Arch
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Floral Backdrop Wall

Behind the sign table, a wall of garden roses, ranunculus and trailing eucalyptus turns a plain corner into the spot everyone photographs, built on a mesh grid frame so each stem slots in and holds its own weight without wire or glue.

It suits a dining room or a living room with one clear wall, under the window rather than over it so the curtains still show. Silk stems instead of fresh ones cost a fraction and survive the whole afternoon without a single petal dropping early.

Floral Backdrop Wall — Behind the sign table, a wall of garden roses, ranunculus and trailing eucalyptus turns a plain corner into the spot everyone
Floral Backdrop Wall
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Single-Flower Hydrangea Installation

One flower, repeated, reads as more deliberate than a mixed bouquet ever does: a full moon shape of blush and ivory hydrangea heads, wired head to head onto a foam ring frame and hung flat against the wall so the blooms sit edge to edge.

It earns its keep in a smaller room where a full floral wall would crowd the furniture, since one generous flower head covers as much space as three smaller stems. Make it yourself over a weekend with a glue gun and a box of silk hydrangea stems bought by the stem, not the bunch.

Single-Flower Hydrangea Installation — One flower, repeated, reads as more deliberate than a mixed bouquet ever does: a full moon shape of blush and ivory
Single-Flower Hydrangea Installation
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Neon-Style ‘She Said Yes’ Sign

Propped against the floral wall or set up on its own gold easel, a soft neon-effect sign spells the phrase everyone already knows in a warm pink or ivory glow, the kind of light that photographs flattering rather than flat under a phone camera.

It works in daylight too, plugged in and left running, since the glow still reads against patterned wallpaper even with the lamps on. Battery versions skip the cord entirely for anyone decorating a rental with limited sockets near the wall.

Neon-Style 'She Said Yes' Sign — Propped against the floral wall or set up on its own gold easel, a soft neon-effect sign spells the phrase everyone already
Neon-Style ‘She Said Yes’ Sign
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Couple Crest or Monogram Sign

Two initials, entwined into one small crest on acrylic or painted wood, sits on the mantel or the dessert table on its own little easel, catching the lamp light in champagne gold lettering against the pattern of the wallpaper behind it.

It gives the room a finished, almost wedding-stationery feel without wedding-stationery money, and it suits a couple who would rather their own names did the talking than a punny banner. Borrow a local stationer’s template instead of a full custom order to cut the price in half.

Couple Crest or Monogram Sign — Two initials, entwined into one small crest on acrylic or painted wood, sits on the mantel or the dessert table on its own
Couple Crest or Monogram Sign
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Stained-Glass Style Welcome Sign

At the front door or just inside it, a pane printed or filmed to look like stained glass greets guests with the couple’s names across jewel-toned panels, propped on a small stand or balanced in a window where the light behind it does half the work.

It suits an entryway with a window more than a blank hallway, since the colour needs some daylight or a lamp behind it to glow properly. A static cling film over a plain glass frame gets the same effect for a fraction of a custom pane.

Stained-Glass Style Welcome Sign — At the front door or just inside it, a pane printed or filmed to look like stained glass greets guests with the couple's
Stained-Glass Style Welcome Sign
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Fairy Lights Overhead

Strung low across the ceiling above the main table, warm white fairy lights turn an ordinary dinner into something softer the moment the main lights go down, the little bulbs catching on every champagne glass underneath them.

They work in any room with a ceiling hook or a curtain rail to clip to, and they scale down just as well over one small table in a studio flat. Battery-powered strings save the hunt for a nearby socket.

Fairy Lights Overhead — Strung low across the ceiling above the main table, warm white fairy lights turn an ordinary dinner into something softer the moment
Fairy Lights Overhead
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The Dessert and Drinks Corner

Once the backdrop earns its photos, attention drifts toward food and drink, so this corner gets the second-biggest share of the room. Dress the table first, then the drinks station beside it, and let the smaller serving pieces fill in whatever gaps are left.

Dessert Table

A tiered stand of macarons and mini tarts sits at the centre of a table dressed in a champagne satin cloth, flanked by a small ring-topped cake and a scatter of fresh blooms, with a patterned runner laid across the satin to stop the whole thing looking too plain.

It works as the room’s second big moment after the backdrop, so give it its own corner rather than squeezing it next to the drinks. Rent or borrow the tiered stands instead of buying them outright, since most people only host one of these.

Dessert Table — A tiered stand of macarons and mini tarts sits at the centre of a table dressed in a champagne satin cloth, flanked by a small ring-topped cake
Dessert Table
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Champagne Wall

A wall-mounted frame holds rows of coupe glasses already filled, so guests lift one straight off the wall instead of queueing at a bar, each glass catching whatever warm light sits nearest, lamp or fairy string.

It suits a party with a head count worth the setup, thirty guests and up; smaller gatherings get the same effect from a coupe pyramid instead, in a fraction of the space. A sparkling juice fills the same wall just as prettily for a dry crowd.

Champagne Wall — A wall-mounted frame holds rows of coupe glasses already filled, so guests lift one straight off the wall instead of queueing at a bar, each
Champagne Wall
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Vintage Silver Trays

Passed hors d’oeuvres and poured drinks both look twice as finished sitting on a polished vintage-style silver tray instead of a plain plate, the metal throwing back every bit of lamp light in the room.

They suit the dessert corner as much as the drinks one, stacked two or three deep for height or laid flat for passing. Charity shops and estate sales turn these up for a fraction of a new set, and nobody can tell the difference once they are full.

Vintage Silver Trays — Passed hors d'oeuvres and poured drinks both look twice as finished sitting on a polished vintage-style silver tray instead of a plain
Vintage Silver Trays
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Coupe Glass Toast Pyramid

Stacked three or four rows high on a side table, a pyramid of champagne coupes waits for the pour at toast time, built on a sturdy acrylic stacking stand so the glasses sit level instead of balanced one on the rim of the next.

It suits a smaller gathering that wants the drama of a champagne wall without the wall-mounted hardware, and it packs away into one box afterward. A tiered cupcake stand underneath raises the whole thing to eye level for photos.

Coupe Glass Toast Pyramid — Stacked three or four rows high on a side table, a pyramid of champagne coupes waits for the pour at toast time, built on a sturdy
Coupe Glass Toast Pyramid
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Heart-Shaped Cheese Board Grazing Display

A wooden board cut into a soft heart shape carries wedges of cheese, dried apricots, grapes and a few sprigs of rosemary, laid out on the drinks table where guests can graze between glasses rather than queue for a plated starter.

It suits a smaller or more casual engagement party better than a full dessert spread, and it comes together from the cheese counter in under an hour. A round board does the same job if the heart shape feels like too much.

Heart-Shaped Cheese Board Grazing Display — A wooden board cut into a soft heart shape carries wedges of cheese, dried apricots, grapes and a few sprigs of
Heart-Shaped Cheese Board Grazing Display
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Rosemary Grapefruit Mocktail Station

A glass beverage dispenser filled with pink grapefruit, sparkling water and bruised rosemary sits at the end of the drinks table with a small stack of highball glasses, the pink liquid matching the blush running through the rest of the room.

It gives anyone skipping the champagne a drink that still looks like it belongs at the party rather than an afterthought of tap water. Swap the grapefruit for pomegranate in colder months for a deeper, more wintery pink.

Rosemary Grapefruit Mocktail Station — A glass beverage dispenser filled with pink grapefruit, sparkling water and bruised rosemary sits at the end of the
Rosemary Grapefruit Mocktail Station
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The Guest Tables

Every guest table gets the same basic bones, whatever the room: something to look at, something lit, something soft underneath. None of it needs to match exactly across every table, so long as the colours stay in the same family.

Photos of the Couple on Every Table

At each place setting, a small framed photo of the couple, different shots at different tables, turns a rented or borrowed table into something that unmistakably belongs to this particular party and no one else’s.

It suits any size of gathering and costs almost nothing once the photos are printed, a few dollars a frame from a craft shop. Swap framed prints for little acrylic stands if the frames keep tipping over on a crowded table.

Photos of the Couple on Every Table — At each place setting, a small framed photo of the couple, different shots at different tables, turns a rented or
Photos of the Couple on Every Table
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Rose Petals Scattered on Table

A loose scatter of blush and ivory petals runs down the centre of the antique lace runner, catching between the candles and the place settings the way confetti never quite does, soft rather than sharp underfoot or on the cloth.

It works on any table dressed in a solid or lightly patterned cloth, since the petals need the contrast to actually show up. Silk petals skip the bruising and wilting of fresh ones and pack away for the next event.

Rose Petals Scattered on Table — A loose scatter of blush and ivory petals runs down the centre of the antique lace runner, catching between the candles and
Rose Petals Scattered on Table
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Candles with Handwritten Messages

Along the table, a row of taper candles each carries a small paper tag with a handwritten line for the couple, tied on with ribbon so the flame stays well clear of the paper itself.

They work lit just before guests sit down and read best once the main lights dim, the warm glow doing more for the mood than any overhead bulb could. Votives in glass holders are the safer swap for a table with younger guests nearby.

Candles with Handwritten Messages — Along the table, a row of taper candles each carries a small paper tag with a handwritten line for the couple, tied on with
Candles with Handwritten Messages
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Antique Lace Runner

A strip of antique-style lace laid over a champagne satin cloth gives the table the texture of something inherited rather than hired, the pattern of the lace catching shadow under every candle flame set on top of it.

It suits a more traditional or vintage-leaning party, and it works just as well over a plain velvet cloth for a darker, richer look. Hand wash it gently afterward, since lace does not love a machine cycle.

Antique Lace Runner — A strip of antique-style lace laid over a champagne satin cloth gives the table the texture of something inherited rather than hired, the
Antique Lace Runner
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Table Lamps

A small lamp with a warm bulb, set at one end of the guest table or on a sideboard nearby, replaces the flat overhead light with something closer to candlelight, soft enough that no one squints in the photos.

It works especially well once the sun goes down mid-party, turned on quietly without anyone noticing the room has changed. A string of plug-in fairy lights does a similar job on a table with no spare outlet for a lamp.

Table Lamps — A small lamp with a warm bulb, set at one end of the guest table or on a sideboard nearby, replaces the flat overhead light with something closer
Table Lamps
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Vintage Mirror Plateau Centerpiece

A round mirrored plateau sits at the centre of the table with a low cluster of candles and a small posy of blush roses arranged on top, the mirror doubling every flame and every petal in reflection.

It suits a table that wants drama without height, since nothing on it blocks the view across to the person opposite. A silver tray works as the swap wherever a true mirror plateau is hard to find.

Vintage Mirror Plateau Centerpiece — A round mirrored plateau sits at the centre of the table with a low cluster of candles and a small posy of blush roses
Vintage Mirror Plateau Centerpiece
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Ribbon-Tied Love Letters Centerpiece

A small stack of envelopes, tied together with satin ribbon and stamped with a wax seal, sits at the centre of the table as though someone just set down a bundle of old love letters between the candles.

It suits a couple with an actual correspondence to lean into, long distance or a long courtship, and it doubles as a quiet conversation piece while guests wait for the toast. Fill the envelopes with real notes from guests collected earlier in the evening, so the stack is not just for show.

Ribbon-Tied Love Letters Centerpiece — A small stack of envelopes, tied together with satin ribbon and stamped with a wax seal, sits at the centre of the table
Ribbon-Tied Love Letters Centerpiece
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Room and Entry Details

The rest of the room still needs a little attention: the mantel, the doorway, the quiet corner nobody plans around until it looks bare on camera. These pieces work in the gaps between the big zones rather than competing with them, finishing the room without starting a second focal point.

Lanterns

A row of glass lanterns along the mantel, each holding a flameless candle, gives the room a flicker that string lights cannot quite match, sitting comfortably among the framed art and greenery already up on the shelf.

They suit an entryway table as much as a mantel, anywhere that needs a bit of warmth without an outlet nearby. Real tealights work indoors too, just not left unattended near the curtains.

Lanterns — A row of glass lanterns along the mantel, each holding a flameless candle, gives the room a flicker that string lights cannot quite match, sitting
Lanterns
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Welcome Banner

Strung above the fireplace or across the top of a doorway, a fabric banner spelling out the couple’s names in satin bunting flags sets the tone the second anyone walks into the room.

It suits the entry wall more than the dessert table, since it wants to be the first thing read, not a backdrop for food. A paper version costs less and still photographs well from across the room.

Welcome Banner — Strung above the fireplace or across the top of a doorway, a fabric banner spelling out the couple's names in satin bunting flags sets the
Welcome Banner
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Confetti on Tables

A light scatter of metallic ring and heart confetti sits near the place settings and dessert plates, catching the lamp light in small flashes without taking over the whole cloth the way a heavy sprinkle would.

It works last, after everything else on the table is placed, since it is the easiest thing to brush away and redo if it lands wrong. Keep it off any cloth with a heavy pattern already, or the shapes disappear into the print.

Confetti on Tables — A light scatter of metallic ring and heart confetti sits near the place settings and dessert plates, catching the lamp light in small
Confetti on Tables
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Doorway Ribbon Streamer Curtain

Hung across the doorway between rooms, a curtain of satin ribbon streamers in blush and champagne gold gives guests something to part through, catching movement and colour in a spot that usually has none.

It suits a small flat where there is no spare wall for a backdrop, turning an ordinary doorframe into its own small moment instead. A tension rod holds the whole thing up without a single hole in the frame.

Doorway Ribbon Streamer Curtain — Hung across the doorway between rooms, a curtain of satin ribbon streamers in blush and champagne gold gives guests something
Doorway Ribbon Streamer Curtain
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Velvet Lounge Corner

A sofa corner dressed with deep blush velvet cushions and a soft throw gives guests somewhere to actually sit and talk rather than stand around the dessert table all evening, the velvet warm against bare arms once the evening cools.

It suits the quieter end of the room, away from the music and the drinks station, near the bookshelf rather than the door. Faux fur cushion covers over the existing sofa pillows get the same effect without buying new furniture.

Velvet Lounge Corner — A sofa corner dressed with deep blush velvet cushions and a soft throw gives guests somewhere to actually sit and talk rather than stand
Velvet Lounge Corner
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Vintage Trunk Gift Table

An old leather or wooden trunk, lid propped half open, holds the cards and small gifts guests bring, a far more interesting landing spot than a plain side table ever manages.

It suits a room with some floor space to spare near the entry, so gifts do not block the main walking path. A vintage suitcase does the same job for anyone without a trunk to hand, and both turn up cheaply at a charity shop.

Vintage Trunk Gift Table — An old leather or wooden trunk, lid propped half open, holds the cards and small gifts guests bring, a far more interesting landing
Vintage Trunk Gift Table
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Floral Mantel Display

A loose garland of greenery and blush blooms drapes along the length of the mantel, woven between the existing framed art and candlesticks already sitting there rather than replacing them.

It suits a room with a working mantel more than a flat wall, since the ledge gives the garland something to rest on. Fresh eucalyptus holds its scent and colour for the length of one evening, while a faux version works for anyone decorating days ahead.

Floral Mantel Display — A loose garland of greenery and blush blooms drapes along the length of the mantel, woven between the existing framed art and
Floral Mantel Display
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Place Settings and Favors

Last to go down, closest to each guest’s hand: the napkin, the card, the small thing they actually take home. Keep the trays, lamps and runners afterward, since most of this list reappears almost exactly in our 12 Baby Shower Decorations at Home for a Living Room whenever the next celebration rolls around.

Patterned Cloth Napkins

At each place setting, a patterned cotton napkin folded into a simple rectangle holds a single small bloom tucked under the fold, resting against the plate where the cutlery usually sits.

It suits any table already carrying a pattern in the runner or the cloth, so long as the two prints share a colour rather than fight each other. Plain satin napkins in the party’s main colour are the safer swap for anyone nervous about mixing patterns.

Patterned Cloth Napkins — At each place setting, a patterned cotton napkin folded into a simple rectangle holds a single small bloom tucked under the fold
Patterned Cloth Napkins
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Place Cards

A small calligraphed card in a thin gold stand marks each seat, propped just behind the napkin where it catches the eye before the plate does.

They suit a seated dinner more than a standing mingling party, where no one needs telling where to sit. A ring box, lid open, holding the folded card instead of a stand gives the same idea a little more theatre for barely more effort.

Place Cards — A small calligraphed card in a thin gold stand marks each seat, propped just behind the napkin where it catches the eye before the plate does.
Place Cards
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Mini Champagne Bottle Favors

A small bottle of sparkling wine, wrapped with a custom tag bearing the couple’s names and the date, sits at each place or lines up on a tray by the door for guests to take on their way out.

It suits a party where the guests are mostly adults who will actually drink it, rather than sit it on a shelf. A mini jar of local honey makes the same gesture for a crowd that would rather not take home alcohol.

Mini Champagne Bottle Favors — A small bottle of sparkling wine, wrapped with a custom tag bearing the couple's names and the date, sits at each place or lines
Mini Champagne Bottle Favors
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‘Love Is Sweet’ Candy Jar Station

A cluster of glass apothecary jars filled with pastel candy in the party’s own colours sits on a side table with a small scoop and a stack of paper bags, so guests fill their own on the way past.

It suits a dessert corner that already has a cake and wants something smaller alongside it for guests to take home rather than eat on the spot. Swap the candy for wrapped chocolates if the room runs warm, since hard candy fares better than anything that melts.

'Love Is Sweet' Candy Jar Station — A cluster of glass apothecary jars filled with pastel candy in the party's own colours sits on a side table with a small
‘Love Is Sweet’ Candy Jar Station
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Pressed Flower Bookmark Favors

A small stack of laminated bookmarks, each pressed with a real dried flower and tied with a thin ribbon, sits in a shallow tray near the door for guests to take as they leave.

It suits a couple who met over books, or simply wants a favour that does more than sit in a kitchen drawer unused. Pressed flower magnets do the same quiet job for anyone without a laminator handy.

Pressed Flower Bookmark Favors — A small stack of laminated bookmarks, each pressed with a real dried flower and tied with a thin ribbon, sits in a shallow
Pressed Flower Bookmark Favors
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Polaroid Memory Wall

A length of twine pinned along one wall holds instant photos clipped on with tiny wooden pegs, the strand filling up through the evening as guests take their own shots on a camera left out on the side table.

It suits a wall already busy with framed art, since the strand just adds another layer rather than needing its own blank space. Leave a second roll of film out so the wall is still filling up toward the end of the night.

Polaroid Memory Wall — A length of twine pinned along one wall holds instant photos clipped on with tiny wooden pegs, the strand filling up through the evening
Polaroid Memory Wall
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Frequently Asked Questions

What decorations do you need for an engagement party?

Most lists come down to signage, florals, lighting, table centerpieces and a few chair or linen details. At home that shrinks to one backdrop, one lit corner and a single dressed table.

How do you decorate an engagement party at home?

Lean on what the room already has, a mantel, a window, a shelf, and add one floral backdrop plus candles rather than buying a full new set of decor.

How much should engagement party decorations cost?

Decor for a hosted or catered party typically falls between 1,000 and 3,000 dollars. A home version built from balloons, candles and one floral panel can come in under 100 dollars.

Who pays for engagement party decorations?

Traditionally the couple’s parents or close friends organise and pay for the party, decorations included, though plenty of couples now plan and pay for their own. Whoever hosts usually covers the decor along with the food.

What color scheme works for an engagement party?

There is no required palette, just two or three colors tied to the ring, the season or the room itself. A sage, eucalyptus and white rose combination gives a simple, nature-inspired scheme, or go warmer with blush and champagne gold.

Do you need a theme for an engagement party?

No, almost anything goes with the theme and formality of an engagement party, so a theme is optional rather than expected. One consistent palette and a single strong backdrop do the same job.

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