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18 Hen Party Games for a Brilliant Girls Night

18 Hen Party Games for a Brilliant Girls Night

If you have been handed the (wonderful, slightly terrifying) job of organising the hen party games, first of all — congratulations, you absolute legend.

Hen party games are the heartbeat of any good hen do, and getting the lineup right means the difference between a night everyone talks about for years and one where the bride spends half the evening awkwardly watching her nan try to understand the rules of Never Have I Ever.

So I put together this list of 18 brilliant hen party games that cover every mood, every venue, and every group dynamic — from chaotic and rowdy to soft and sentimental, with a whole lot of printable fun in between.

Every single game here works whether you are crammed into a rental house kitchen, squeezed around a restaurant table, or out on a full-blown night out. I have flagged which ones need a little prep (plan ahead, chief bridesmaid!)

and which ones you can pull out of your bag on the spot — because sometimes the best hen do itineraries are the ones you improvise at 9pm with a glass of prosecco in hand. Right, let’s get into it.

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1. Mr and Mrs Quiz

The Mr and Mrs Quiz is the ultimate hen party game opener — it is a classic for a reason, and tbh, no hen do lineup feels complete without it.

Before the party, the chief bridesmaid secretly contacts the groom and asks him a list of around 15–20 questions about himself, the bride, and their relationship. His answers are recorded (a voice note or written replies work perfectly) and kept hidden until the big night.

At the hen do, the bride is put in the hot seat and asked the very same questions — her job is to match his answers exactly.

Every time she gets an answer wrong, she takes a sip of her drink — or completes a mini dare if you want to keep it alcohol-optional. Questions can range from sweet (‘What is her favourite film?’)

to gently cheeky (‘Who is the better driver?’), and the maid of honour controls the pace and reads out the groom’s real answer after each one to maximum comedic effect.

For a fun twist, record the groom answering on video beforehand so everyone can watch his face as the answers are revealed — this works brilliantly in a house or restaurant setting.

The sweet spot for timing is during pre-drinks — early enough that everyone is engaged and paying attention, but after a drink or two to get the laughs flowing freely. Keep around 20 questions so the game runs for about 20 minutes without dragging.

Pro tip: ask the groom to be as specific as possible with his answers (no generic ‘I don’t know’ replies!) so the comparisons are actually funny. Zero prep needed on the night itself — just a list of questions ready to go.

💡 Host tip

Record the groom on video answering each question beforehand — playing it back on the night makes his reactions part of the game and gets the whole room howling.

2. Hen Party Bingo

Hen Party Bingo is not your average bingo — forget numbered balls and a bingo caller in a sequined waistcoat (although, honestly, that does sound like a good time).

Instead, each guest gets a printed bingo card filled with things that are likely to happen during the hen do: the bride cries happy tears, someone mentions the groom at least five times in a minute, a stranger asks if you are on a hen night, the bride loses her veil, someone orders the wrong round, and so on.

As each thing actually happens during the evening, guests mark it off their card.

Print one card per guest before the party and hand them out at the start of the night.

The beauty of this one is that it runs in the background all evening with zero hosting effort — guests will be watching the night unfold with eagle eyes, pen in hand, waiting for the first ‘BINGO!’ shout across the restaurant.

It travels brilliantly in a handbag, works in any venue, and keeps everyone hyper-aware of the funny little moments happening around them.

The first person to complete a full row or a full house wins a small prize — a mini bottle of prosecco, a cute beauty product, or a hen-themed badge all work a treat.

You can also play ‘four corners’ for a midway prize to keep the excitement going across the whole night.

This is one of the best hen party games for mixed groups where not everyone knows each other, because it gives everyone a shared focus and a reason to chat.

👥 Best for

  • Mixed groups who do not all know each other
  • Evening-long play that needs zero hosting in the moment
  • Any venue — restaurant, bar, or rental house
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3. Dare Wheel Spin

The Dare Wheel Spin is the rowdiest game on this list — and I mean that as the highest possible compliment.

Before the party, the maid of honour fills a physical spinning wheel (or a free online spinner app on her phone) with dares written specifically for the group.

These can range from completely daft (‘do your best impression of the bride walking down the aisle’) to mildly cheeky (‘convince a stranger at the bar that you are all celebrity bridesmaids’).

The key is writing dares that are funny and memorable rather than uncomfortable — keep them playful, not mean.

Each hen takes a turn spinning the wheel, and whatever segment it lands on, she has to complete the dare within a set time limit — usually two minutes.

If she refuses or fails, she takes a forfeit decided by the group (finishing her drink, wearing a penalty accessory for ten minutes, or performing an extra mini dare).

The bride always gets a few extra spins as the star of the show, so make sure at least two or three of her dares are specifically tailored to her personality.

This one needs a bit of prep — write 10–15 unique dares in advance and load them into the wheel before the evening starts.

It works perfectly in a rental house pre-drinks setting but also travels brilliantly to a bar if you use a phone-based spinner. Games like this are what people quote back to each other at the wedding, so go all in on the creativity.

Pro tip: keep one blank segment on the wheel that the spinner must fill in herself on the spot — the improvised ones are always the funniest.

🧺 You’ll need

  • A physical spinning wheel or free online spinner app
  • A pre-written list of 10–15 bespoke dares
  • Small forfeits ready (mini confetti crowns, a sash, a penalty shot glass)

4. Advice for the Bride Cards

Advice for the Bride Cards is the game that will make the bride genuinely well up — in the best possible way.

Each guest is given a beautifully printed card with a few fill-in-the-blank prompts: ‘My advice for married life is…’, ‘The secret to a happy relationship is…’, ‘Never go to bed without…’, and ‘The funniest thing about loving someone is…’

Everyone fills in their cards independently, and then the bride reads them aloud to the group, one by one.

The magic of this game is the range of responses you get — from the genuinely wise (‘always say thank you, even for the small things’) to the absolutely unhinged (‘never let him control the TV remote on a Sunday’).

Mixed friend groups shine here because the bride’s school friend, her mum’s mate, and her work bestie will all have completely different takes, which makes for brilliant variety.

Collect all the filled-in cards at the end of the night and present them tied with a ribbon — they become a gorgeous keepsake for the bride to look back on.

This one needs zero prep on the night and travels in an envelope in your handbag. It works brilliantly as a wind-down moment after a rowdy game or as a lovely activity during a meal when everyone is already gathered around a table.

If you want to add a playful twist, nominate one person to read their advice aloud in the style of the maid of honour giving a speech — complete with dramatic pauses and tearful voices.

✨ Why it works

It creates a real keepsake the bride can re-read long after the hen do — and it gives everyone, including quieter guests, a way to meaningfully contribute to the night.

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5. Bride Trivia Showdown

Bride Trivia Showdown is the competitive cousin of Mr and Mrs, and it is perfect for groups who take their quizzes seriously (you know the ones — the friends who actually argue about correct answers even when there are no stakes involved).

Unlike Mr and Mrs, this game is not about matching the groom’s answers — it is a full group quiz about the bride herself, with every hen competing to prove she knows the bride-to-be best.

The maid of honour acts as quizmaster and fires out 20 questions: her first job, her most embarrassing moment, her go-to karaoke song, the city where she and the groom had their first holiday, her celebrity crush in secondary school.

Score one point per correct answer, and at the end of the quiz, the hen with the most points is crowned the Official Bride Expert. Losers owe the winner a round, or take a fun forfeit — whatever fits the group’s energy.

For extra chaos, add a lightning-round buzzer question at the end where the first to shout the correct answer wins a bonus point.

This is one of those hen party games that reveals brilliant stories about the bride that even her closest friends did not know.

Prep is minimal but important: whoever writes the questions needs to check the answers with the bride in advance (you cannot have disputed answers in a competitive quiz — trust me on this). Around 20 questions is the sweet spot.

It works beautifully in any venue — just have the quizmaster stand up so everyone can hear. Hand out small score sheets or just keep a running tally on your phone for simplicity.

✅ Make it easier

Pre-verify every answer with the bride a few days before so there are zero disputed results on the night — nothing kills a quiz buzz like an argument about whether her first pet was called Biscuit or Custard.

6. Wedding Emoji Quiz

The Wedding Emoji Quiz is exactly what it sounds like: a series of wedding-themed words, phrases, and films that have been encoded entirely in emoji sequences, and guests have to decode them.

Think a ring emoji followed by a diamond emoji and a heart equals ‘engagement ring’, or a veil icon, a man icon, and a champagne glass decoding to ‘wedding toast’.

It sounds simple until you are three proseccos in and genuinely cannot figure out what a moon, a star, and a baby chicken means (it is ‘honeymoon’, by the way).

Print one sheet per guest and set a timer for five to seven minutes — everyone works individually, then you read out the answers together for maximum groaning and laughing. Score one point per correct answer and hand a small prize to the winner.

Make sure your emoji clues are drawn as actual tiny picture icons on the sheet rather than written-out descriptions, so guests genuinely have to decode symbols, not read words.

This is a brilliantly portable hen party game that fits perfectly in a restaurant setting where guests are already seated — no running around required.

It also works as a quiet icebreaker right at the start of the evening when not everyone has arrived yet, because it gives early arrivals something to puzzle over while they wait.

Prep is simple: design and print the sheets before the party and pack them in a folder. The answer key lives at the very bottom of the sheet in tiny light-grey italic text so only the quizmaster needs to check it.

💡 Host tip

Print a spare copy for yourself with the answers circled so you can confidently read them out — there will absolutely be at least two guests who try to argue that their answer was also valid.

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7. Hen Do Scavenger Hunt

The Hen Do Scavenger Hunt is the hen party game that turns a night out into a full adventure — and honestly, it is one of the most talked-about games of any hen weekend.

Split the group into two or three teams and give each team a printed list of challenges and items to complete or collect over the course of the evening.

Challenges might include: get a selfie with a stranger who shares the groom’s name, convince a bar employee to write a message to the bride on a napkin, find someone wearing the same colour as the bride’s wedding shoes, or get a group of strangers to pose for a photo holding an imaginary bouquet.

Each challenge is worth different points depending on difficulty, and teams report back at a set meeting point and time with their photographic evidence on their phones.

The team with the most points at the end of the night wins — and the prize is the bragging rights of being the most ridiculous and resourceful hen squad in the room.

This game works especially well on a pub crawl or across multiple bars, since it naturally keeps the group moving and energised.

Prep the list before the party and print or screenshot it for each team captain.

Keep challenges light and fun — a couple of mildly cheeky ones are perfect, but the best scavenger hunt challenges are the silly ones that involve roping in members of the public in a completely harmless way.

This game also doubles as a brilliant photo album keepsake: compile the best images into a little digital album for the bride after the night.

🧺 You’ll need

  • A printed or screenshot challenge list for each team
  • A group WhatsApp for submitting photo evidence
  • A meeting point and curfew time agreed in advance

8. Guess the Honeymoon Spot

Guess the Honeymoon Spot is a travel-themed trivia game with a brilliant twist: guests are not guessing the couple’s actual honeymoon destination — they are decoding illustrated clue cards that represent famous romantic travel spots from around the world, and racing to identify as many as possible in a timed round.

Clues might be a picture of the Eiffel Tower with a question mark, a tropical palm scene with a sunset, or the outline of a famous coastline — all without the name of the place written anywhere on the card.

Whoever correctly identifies the most destinations wins.

Print one sheet per guest and set a five-minute timer. After time is up, read out the answers together and see who has been paying attention on their travel Instagram. Score one point per correct answer.

As a bonus round to close the game, reveal the couple’s actual honeymoon destination last (the maid of honour keeps it secret until this moment), and whoever guessed closest wins a bonus prize — even if they did not score highest in the main round.

This game is incredibly easy to run in a restaurant or rental house — everyone is seated, the sheets sit flat on the table, and it only takes about ten minutes from start to finish.

It is also a genuinely lovely excuse to talk about travel, dream holidays, and the bride’s excitement about her upcoming trip. A brilliant middle-of-the-evening game when energy needs a gentle reset between rowdier activities.

👥 Best for

  • Restaurant tables where everyone is already seated
  • Groups with a travel-obsessed bride
  • A calm-ish mid-evening reset between rowdier games
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9. Toilet Paper Wedding Dress

Toilet Paper Wedding Dress is pure, unadulterated chaos in the best possible way — and it is one of those hen party games where the results are always more spectacular than anyone predicted.

Split the group into teams of three to five people, give each team a stack of toilet rolls and a roll of sellotape, and set a timer for 10–15 minutes.

Each team nominates one of their members to be the model bride, and the rest of the team has 15 minutes to create the most stunning (or the most gloriously awful) wedding dress entirely from toilet paper.

The real bride-to-be sits this round out entirely — she is the judge.

When time is up, each team’s creation walks the improvised catwalk while the bride scores them out of ten on categories like creativity, elegance, and structural integrity (very scientific). The winning team gets a small prize; the losing team gets a forfeit.

Have a hen party playlist running in the background during the design phase to keep the energy up — it transforms a crafting session into a full fashion show experience.

Tip: always buy at least twice as many toilet rolls as you think you need, because teams get very ambitious very quickly.

This one needs zero skill and maximum silliness, which makes it a brilliant icebreaker for groups where not everyone knows each other yet.

It works best in a rental house or private dining room where there is floor space for construction — it is not exactly the kind of game you can run at a bar table, so plan it for the pre-drinks portion of the evening.

Make sure someone is taking photos throughout the design process, because the in-progress shots are honestly funnier than the finished dresses.

🧺 You’ll need

  • At least 4–6 rolls of toilet paper per team
  • A roll of sellotape per team
  • Optional extras: ribbon, paper flowers, hen party veils for embellishment
  • A hen party playlist queued and ready

10. Bride Would You Rather

Bride Would You Rather takes the classic party game and makes it entirely about the bride-to-be: every single question is tailored specifically to her life, her relationship, and her upcoming wedding, so guests are not just answering for themselves — they are trying to predict what the bride would choose.

Would the bride rather have an extra hour in bed or an extra hour getting ready? Would she rather uninvite one guest or change the venue a week before? Would she rather her mum plan the honeymoon or the groom plan it entirely unsupervised?

The comedy potential is enormous.

Each guest gets a printed sheet with 15 this-or-that questions and circles their prediction of what the bride would choose. After everyone has filled in their answers, the bride reveals her actual choices one by one — one point is awarded for each correct prediction.

The guest who knows the bride best wins a small prize, and the bride takes a sip of her drink for every answer that genuinely surprises the room (spoiler: she will be drinking a lot).

This is a seated, calm-ish game that works brilliantly during a meal or in the early part of the evening when people are still warming up.

No running around, no shouting required — just a pen, a printed sheet, and a bride who is willing to be honest about whether she would truly rather eat wedding cake for breakfast every day forever or never eat cake again.

Print the sheets before you go and hand them out once everyone is settled.

✨ Why it works

Unlike general would-you-rather games, every question is personalised to the bride, which means even guests who barely know each other can bond over their predictions and arguments about who knows her better.

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11. Pin the Kiss on the Groom

Pin the Kiss on the Groom is the hen party’s brilliantly silly answer to Pin the Tail on the Donkey — and it never, ever fails to get the room going.

Before the party, print out a large photo of the groom’s face (the bigger the better — A2 or larger is ideal) and stick it to a wall at the venue.

Each guest slicks on the boldest, reddest lipstick she can find, gets blindfolded and spun around three times, and then marches toward the poster to kiss the groom as close to his lips as possible.

Write each guest’s name next to their lipstick mark with a marker pen so you can score at the end.

The guest whose kiss lands closest to the groom’s lips wins a small prize.

But here is where you add the hen do twist: divide the poster into zones (lips, cheek, forehead, ear, chin, mystery zone off the poster entirely) and assign each zone a different outcome — landing on the lips means you pick a dare for the bride, landing on the forehead means you down your drink, landing off the poster entirely means a forfeit of the group’s choosing.

This way, even the terrible aims get a laugh out of their result.

Prep involves printing and mounting the poster before the party — do it the day before and roll it up in a tube for transport.

This game works in a rental house, a hired restaurant private room, or any venue where you can temporarily stick something to a wall. The lipstick marks left behind make for an absolutely iconic group photo before you take the poster down.

The bride gets to keep it as a memento.

🧺 You’ll need

  • A large printed photo of the groom (A2 size or bigger)
  • Bold red or pink lipstick for guests to share
  • A blindfold
  • Blu-tack or tape to mount the poster safely

12. Guess the Dress

Guess the Dress is one of those hen party games that sounds almost too simple — until you actually play it and realise how brilliantly it works.

Before the party, the maid of honour collects a series of wedding dress photos: a mix of the bride’s actual dress (if the hen do is before the wedding), a few dresses she considered and rejected, and several wildcard options ranging from completely over-the-top to hilariously plain.

These are displayed on a phone or laptop screen one by one, and each guest votes on which one they think is THE dress — or which one best suits the bride’s personality.

The game can play out in two fun ways depending on whether the wedding dress is still a secret: if it is a secret, guests are simply guessing and debating aloud, and the maid of honour tallies votes but reveals nothing (keeping the mystery intact for the big day).

If the dress is no longer a secret, the bride scores guests on their reasons for choosing — the most creative justification wins, not necessarily the correct guess.

Either version leads to brilliant conversations about style, the bride’s fashion history, and some very strong opinions about ruffles.

Zero prep is needed beyond collecting a handful of dress images on a phone, which takes about five minutes.

This is an ideal quieter game to slot in during a meal or while waiting for food to arrive — it sparks conversation, keeps the focus on the bride, and works perfectly in any venue.

For a fun twist, include one completely outrageous fancy-dress costume in the lineup and watch people genuinely debate whether the bride might wear it.

✅ Make it easier

Screenshot 8–10 dress images into a phone album before you leave the house — then just swipe through them on the night. No printing, no setup, no fuss.

13. Never Have I Ever (Bride Edition)

Never Have I Ever is a hen party classic — but the Bride Edition has a specific twist that makes it feel fresh and personal rather than just a generic drinking game.

Instead of everyone taking turns making up their own statements, the maid of honour has pre-written a list of 25–30 statements that are specifically about things the bride has (or possibly has) done, based on real knowledge of her life and relationship history.

Statements might include: ‘Never have I ever texted the wrong person something meant for the groom’, ‘Never have I ever cried at a wedding that wasn’t mine’, or ‘Never have I ever considered calling off the wedding for even five seconds’.

Everyone raises their drink, and if you HAVE done the thing stated, you take a sip. If the bride is the only one sipping, she takes an extra sip and the group cheers.

If nobody sips, the maid of honour gets to ask the bride directly: ‘But have YOU?’ — and must answer honestly.

Keep it playful rather than pressuring — the bride always has the right to take a sip mysteriously and say absolutely nothing, which is honestly the funniest outcome anyway.

This works brilliantly in any venue because it requires nothing but drinks and a list of prepared statements.

It is perfect for the start of the evening to get everyone warmed up and chatting, and it reveals hilarious stories that half the room did not know about.

Tbh, this might be the most revealing game on the entire hen do — and the one that generates the most ‘wait, WHAT?’ moments from guests who thought they knew the bride inside out.

💡 Host tip

Pre-write at least 30 bride-specific statements and save them to your notes app so you can read them off your phone on the night — no bits of paper to lose in a busy bar.

14. Handbag Raid Points

Handbag Raid Points is the surprise icebreaker that works at absolutely any stage of the evening — and the beauty of it is that no guest sees it coming, which means no one can cheat by pre-loading their bag with convenient items.

The host reads out a pre-prepared list of items one by one, and guests frantically root through their handbags to see whether they have each item.

Score points for every item you can produce: one point for basics (a lip balm, a hair bobble, a receipt), two points for useful-but-less-common items (a safety pin, a sticking plaster, a mini hand cream), and five points for the wildly specific bonus items (a loyalty card with zero stamps used, something that belongs to someone else, a item from abroad).

At the end of the list, tally up the scores. The guest with the most points wins a prize. The guest with the fewest points earns a gentle dare.

The real entertainment comes from the discoveries along the way — ancient receipts, mystery items, and the guest who inexplicably carries a full-sized bottle of sauce in her evening bag (no judgement, she is prepared for anything).

This is one of those hen party games that reveals an enormous amount about a person’s personality in about three minutes flat.

Zero prep required beyond writing your item list before the evening — keep it to around 20 items, and save the most absurd bonus items for last when everyone is already laughing.

This travels perfectly in your pocket and works in literally any venue, from a restaurant table to a club corner booth.

It is ideal for the start of the night when not everyone has arrived yet, since latecomers can jump right in when they sit down.

👥 Best for

  • Zero-prep icebreaker at the very start of the night
  • Any venue — works in restaurants, bars, or at home
  • Spotting which friend is secretly the most prepared human alive

15. Best Memory with the Bride

Best Memory with the Bride is the game that wraps the whole night in a warm hug — it is quieter, it is emotional, and it is the one the bride will talk about for years.

Each guest is given a small card and asked to write down their single best memory shared with the bride-to-be: the moment that most makes them smile when they think of her, the story they always tell when they describe what she means to them.

It might be a travel adventure, a silly ordinary Tuesday, a crisis navigated together, or the first time they realised they were proper friends.

Once everyone has written their memory, the cards go into a little bag or tin. The bride picks them out one by one and reads each memory aloud — trying to guess who wrote it before looking at the name.

For best friends, the guessing is usually easy; for the friends from different circles, it is sometimes sweetly impossible.

Either way, each memory becomes a tiny story shared with the whole group, and the room gets to hear just how many brilliant moments this one person has collected with the people she loves.

If you want to give this game a tangible keepsake twist, use beautiful printed cards with a scalloped border and collect them all in a ribbon-tied bundle for the bride to take home.

Alternatively, ask guests to text their memory to the maid of honour in advance so they can be formatted into a little memory book to present on the night.

This one is especially lovely to slot in after a meal when everyone is full, comfortable, and in the right headspace for something meaningful. Planning the whole hen do?

You might also want to browse this fun Valentine’s Day quiz for a bit of extra romantic inspiration for any upcoming celebrations.

✨ Why it works

It gives every guest — including the ones who are quieter or from different friendship circles — an equal and meaningful moment in the spotlight, and it leaves the bride with a genuine keepsake full of love.

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16. Prosecco Pong

Prosecco Pong is beer pong’s far classier, more glamorous older sister — and it is a legitimate hen do institution at this point.

Split the group into two equal teams and set up six plastic flutes or cups at each end of a long table in a 3-2-1 triangle formation, each one filled about halfway with prosecco.

Teams take turns throwing or bouncing a ping pong ball across the table, aiming to land it in one of the opposing team’s glasses. When a ball lands in a glass, someone on the opposing team drinks the contents.

The first team to empty all of their opponents’ glasses wins.

The rules are simple enough that everyone can play after minimal explanation, which means it works brilliantly in that slightly chaotic phase of the hen do when everyone is already a few drinks in and full concentration is no longer available.

For an extra hen-party spin, write tiny dares on small stickers and put one under each cup — so when a glass is sunk and drunk, the loser also has to complete the dare hidden underneath.

It adds a second layer of entertainment to what is already a very entertaining game.

This one needs a bit of space, so it works best in a rental house or a hired venue with a clear table.

It can be done in a bar if you have a booth or a private area, but you will need to be sensible about the ball hygiene situation (bring sanitising wipes, honestly).

A dedicated Prosecco Pong kit with pink balls is a cheap and cheerful thing to pack in the party supplies bag — it also doubles as a cute gift for the bride to take home for future hosting.

💡 Host tip

Stick tiny dare stickers under each cup before filling them — when a cup is sunk, the drinker reveals and completes the dare underneath for an extra layer of chaos.

17. Toast Roulette

Toast Roulette is the warmest, most spontaneous game of the night — and it requires absolutely nothing except drinks, willing participants, and a spinning bottle or a randomiser wheel on someone’s phone.

The premise is delightfully simple: spin the bottle or wheel, and whoever it lands on must stand up and propose a toast to the bride-to-be on the spot.

No preparation, no notes — just thirty seconds to say something heartfelt, funny, embarrassing, or all three at once. The rest of the group listens, responds with ‘hear hear!’, and everyone drinks.

The magic of Toast Roulette is the combination of vulnerability and laughter it produces.

The extroverts will deliver something theatrical and perfectly timed; the quieter guests will surprise everyone with something unexpectedly moving; the one who claims to hate public speaking will somehow deliver the best toast of the night after two glasses of prosecco (it always happens).

Run it continuously throughout the evening so everyone gets at least one spin, or do it in a single dedicated round after dinner when everyone is warmed up.

This needs zero prep and is completely portable — it works at a restaurant, a bar, or a rental house with equal ease.

For a gentle twist, give guests a ‘toast theme’ when they spin: the bottle also points at a folded card that says ‘tell a story’, ‘give advice’, ‘share a prediction’, or ‘say what you love most’ — so the toast is guided but still entirely spontaneous.

This is one of those hen party games that genuinely does not feel like a game at all by the end.

✨ Why it works

It gives every guest a moment to celebrate the bride in their own voice — and the unscripted, unpolished nature of it makes the toasts more genuine and memorable than any planned speech.

18. Gratitude Share

Gratitude Share is the game you save for the very end of the night — or for a quiet golden hour during an afternoon hen do when the energy is mellow and the mood is warm.

It is also the one that will definitely make someone cry (almost certainly the maid of honour, let’s be honest). Sit everyone in a circle.

Going around the group, each person completes one or both of these sentences out loud: ‘Something I am grateful to the bride for is…’ and ‘Something I wish for the bride as she starts this new chapter is…’

No time limits, no scoring, no competition — just honest, spoken words shared with the whole group.

The bride listens and is not allowed to deflect or downplay — a house rule that actually matters here, because brides are terrible at accepting compliments and will instinctively try to laugh it off.

Designate the maid of honour as the ‘receiver’ who gently holds the bride’s hand and makes sure she really hears each person.

After everyone has spoken, the bride gets the final word: she responds with one sentence of gratitude to the whole group for being there. Have tissues available. Do not pretend you will not need them.

The Gratitude Share needs no materials and works in any venue or setting — it simply needs a few minutes of quiet and a group willing to be a little bit vulnerable together.

It pairs beautifully with the Best Memory game earlier in the evening, so by the time you reach Gratitude Share, everyone is already in the right emotional register.

If you are looking for more ways to celebrate the women in your life with thoughtful, personal touches, this list of what every woman really wants is a brilliant read for gifting inspiration around the hen do season.

💡 Host tip

Warn guests five minutes in advance that this is coming so no one is caught completely off guard — a little heads-up means people have a moment to gather their thoughts and the words come more easily.

Frequently Asked Questions

What are the best hen party games for a mixed group who do not all know each other?

Handbag Raid Points and Hen Party Bingo are brilliant icebreakers for mixed groups because they do not require any shared history — everyone can play from the moment they arrive.

Toilet Paper Wedding Dress is also a great team-building option because the silliness breaks down barriers fast.

For a more personal bonding experience, Best Memory with the Bride is a lovely way for guests from different circles to learn about each other through their shared love of the bride.

Which hen party games need prep before the night?

Mr and Mrs Quiz requires you to contact the groom in advance and collect his answers — give yourself at least a week. The Dare Wheel Spin needs bespoke dares written and loaded into the wheel.

Pin the Kiss on the Groom needs the groom’s photo printed large. The printable games (Hen Party Bingo, Wedding Emoji Quiz, Guess the Honeymoon Spot, Advice for the Bride Cards, Bride Would You Rather) all need to be printed and packed before you leave.

Everything else can be pulled together on the spot.

Which hen party games work best on a night out rather than at home?

The Hen Do Scavenger Hunt is practically designed for a night out — it sends teams loose across bars and venues.

Never Have I Ever, Handbag Raid Points, Toast Roulette, and Bride Trivia Showdown all travel perfectly in your bag and need nothing but drinks to play.

The printable games also work well in bars and restaurants as long as guests have a flat surface to write on — a clipboard in your bag is a simple solution.

How many hen party games should we play in one night?

Four to six games is a sweet spot for a full evening — you want a rowdy opener, a couple of mid-evening activities, and something quieter to round the night off.

If your hen do spans a full weekend, you can spread more games across the two days without the night feeling like a game show.

A good flow might be: icebreaker game, active group game, printable round during a meal, rowdy drinking game later in the evening, and one quiet meaningful game to close.

Are there hen party games that work for non-drinkers?

Absolutely — most of these games can be played without alcohol. For games that traditionally involve drinking as a forfeit (Mr and Mrs, Never Have I Ever, Prosecco Pong), simply swap sips for mini dares, sweets, or another non-alcoholic forfeit.

Gratitude Share, Best Memory with the Bride, Advice for the Bride Cards, Bride Would You Rather, and Guess the Dress all involve zero drinking whatsoever and are just as much fun without it.

What is the best way to organise hen party games so they do not all happen at once?

Space your games across the evening with intention: start with a quick icebreaker (Handbag Raid Points or Hen Party Bingo) as people arrive, move to a bigger group game (Mr and Mrs or Bride Trivia) once everyone is there, run a printable game during a meal, pull out the rowdier games (Prosecco Pong, Dare Wheel Spin, Toilet Paper Dress) after dinner when energy is high, and end the night with something warm and meaningful (Gratitude Share or Toast Roulette).

This rhythm keeps energy levels varied and gives quieter guests room to breathe between the big moments.

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